{"id":721,"date":"2014-05-29T08:28:28","date_gmt":"2014-05-29T08:28:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ranahdamai.org\/?p=721"},"modified":"2014-05-29T08:28:28","modified_gmt":"2014-05-29T08:28:28","slug":"benarkah-menikah-didasari-oleh-kecocokkan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.lutfialfandra.my.id\/index.php\/2014\/05\/29\/benarkah-menikah-didasari-oleh-kecocokkan\/","title":{"rendered":"Benarkah Menikah Didasari Oleh Kecocokkan ?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\t\t\t\t\"pasangan1\"<\/a>Benarkah Menikah Didasari Oleh Kecocokkan.. .
\nKalau dua-duanya doyan musik,
\nberarti ada gejala bisa langgeng…
\nKalau sama-sama suka sop buntut
\nberarti masa depan cerah…(That simple?….. …)<\/p>\n

Berbeda dengan sepasang sandal yang hanya punya aspek kiri dan kanan, menikah adalah persatuan dua manusia, pria dan wanita.
\nDari anatomi saja sudah tidak sebangun, apalagi urusan jiwa dan
\nhatinya.
\nKecocokan, minat dan latar belakang keluarga bukan jaminan segalanya
\nakan lancar.. Lalu apa?<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

MENIKAH adalah proses pendewasaan. Dan untuk memasukinya diperlukan pelaku yang kuat dan berani. Berani menghadapi masalah yang akan terjadi dan punya kekuatan untuk menemukan jalan keluarnya.<\/p>\n

Kedengarannya sih indah, tapi kenyataannya?
\nHarus ada ‘Komunikasi Dua Arah’,
\n‘ Ada kerelaan mendengar kritik’,
\n‘ Ada keikhlasan meminta maaf’,
\n‘ Ada ketulusan melupakan kesalahan’
\ndan ‘Keberanian untuk mengemukakan pendapat’.
\nSekali lagi MENIKAH bukanlah upacara yang diramaikan gending cinta,
\nbukan rancangan gaun pengantin ala cinderella, apalagi rangkaian
\nmobil undangan yang memacetkan jalan.<\/p>\n

MENIKAH adalah berani memutuskan untuk berlabuh, ketika ribuan kapal
\npesiar yang gemerlap memanggil-manggil.
\nMENIKAH adalah proses penggabungan dua orang berkepala batu dalam
\nsatu ruangan di mana kemesraan, ciuman, dan pelukan yang berkepanjangan hanyalah bunga.<\/p>\n

Masalahnya bukanlah menikah dengan anak siapa, yang hartanya berapa, bukanlah rangkaian bunga mawar yang jumlahnya ratusan, bukanlah perencanaan berbulan-bulan yang akhirnya membuat keluarga saling tersinggung, apalagi kegemaran minum kopi yang sama…<\/p>\n

MENIKAH bukan didasari atas kesucian diri, tapi kesucian hati. Apalah
\nartinya MENIKAH apabila tidak suci hati. Diri yang kotor dapat mudah
\ndiperbaiki, namun hati yang kotor tak mudah diperbaiki.
\nMENIKAH adalah proses pengenalan diri sendiri maupun pasangan anda.
\nTanpa mengenali diri sendiri, bagaimana anda bisa memahami orang
\nlain…??
\nTanpa bisa memperhatikan diri sendiri, bagaimana anda bisa
\nmemperhatikan pasangan hidup…??<\/p>\n

MENIKAH sangat membutuhkan keberanian tingkat tinggi, toleransi
\nsedalam samudra, serta jiwa besar untuk ‘Menerima’ dan ‘Memaafkan’.
\nDengan kata lain, MENIKAH merupakan penggabungan dua bagian yang
\nsaling berbeda untuk dicari kecocokannya, bagaikan mur dan baut,
\nbukan persamaan yang dangkal, bukan pula persamaan yang terlihat indah di mata.<\/p>\n

Perbedaan harus dicari kecocokan bukan persamaan.
\nPerpisahaan dengan alasan perbedaan adalah alasan yang naif, dan
\ndibuat-buat.<\/p>\n

Awas kalo ada yang bilang “Jiaaaaah kaya yang udah pengalaman aja”? ta pateni tenan…… urang kadek lah… I kill you…\t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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